As we mentioned in our last dating tip, when it comes to seducing your mate, attitude plays a very big role in how successful or unsuccessful you are.

But it goes much further than that. When you’re trying to make your best impression on your mate, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If you’re not giving off those positive vibes, people will pick up on it and will most likely steer clear of you.

The bottom line is that people like to find a mate who’s stable in many aspects. Part of what people judge as stability and attitude can reflect in your work. No, this doesn’t mean you need to be a vice-president of your company. It simply means that if you’re changing jobs, partners, or friends every couple of months, or getting let go for poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then people are going to think twice before they get involved with you.

Remember, people are looking for a partner, a 50/ 50 relationship, and are now using Internet dating to find the best possible mate.