You are going out on date with someone whom you really like. The two of you hit it off on many levels but you want to make sure that he thinks of you in a romantic context and not as just good friends. How do you get him to kiss you on the first date? How do you keep it at just a kiss so that he thinks of you and looks forward to the next date wanting just a little more? You will want to take a little of the advice from our hot first date  article but not all of it.

A bright smile, a suggestive glance, and revealing garments can lead the way to a hot first date. Because of the chance that the first date will be a disappointment a women may want to wear a jacket over her revealing dress. If the encounter does not promise to be a hot first the date the jacket stays in place. If things become interesting you can ask him to please help you remove your jacket with the implication that you would like him to remove what little else you are wearing as well!

And even though you only want a kiss on the first date remember that if you decide to go a little farther, protection is important.

Do not forget that if your wish is for a hot first date that protection is important. Bring condoms and do not expect your hot first date to take all of the precautions. For women who are on birth control condoms are still important in this world of AIDS and other serious diseases. Remember that although this may be your first hot date in a long time but it may be a routine thing for your new friend. Be careful and have a great time!

What Do You Want from the Relationship?

If you are looking for a kiss on the first date you are interested in romance. Do you want the romance to blossom into a lifelong happy relationship or are you simply looking for someone who is interesting to be with as well as a compatible sexual partner? If you wait for him to walk you to the door at the end of your date you are gambling that he will kiss you and if you try to warm things earlier in the evening you may find yourself farther along in the seduction that you bargained for. To the extent that you want an interesting friend and sexual partner it may not be a bad thing to let things start early and see where they go. But if you are still testing the waters to see how much you like this person you probably want to go more slowly on the sexual side. In that case make sure that he has plenty of opportunity when he walks you to the door and make sure to give him a warm smile, a squeeze of the hand or even brush up against him before he can leave.  If all else fails you may wish to kiss him gently on the lips and pause to see if he returns the favor. That would be acid test to see if he wants a little romance or is thinking about being just good friends.